Wheaton Montessori School
Nurturing the Whole Child: How Montessori Balances Emotional, Social, and Cognitive Growth
Rebecca Lingo • November 18, 2024

One of the gifts of Montessori education is that we can truly focus on the whole child —cognitive, social, emotional, and physical. Our approach is not just about academics but also about nurturing life skills, emotional intelligence, and social relationships.


Thank you, Dr. Maria Montesori!


Our background in child development revolves around the understanding that children are naturally curious, care deeply about others, and are driven. When provided with an authentic and high-fidelity school, children continue to deepen their love for learning and their appreciation of and care for the community. 


Prioritizing the Prepared Environment


One of the keys to balancing social-emotional learning with cognitive and physical development is prioritizing the impact of a prepared environment as we do at Wheaton Montessori School. A prepared environment is a place specially designed to appeal to children’s sensitive periods for learning, as well as their core human needs and tendencies. When creating these prepared spaces for children, we work to ensure children feel safe and supported so they can reach their potential. The Montessori-prepared environment is where children can feel at home as they develop their inner selves and outer skills.


Our carefully prepared classrooms at Wheaton Montessori School are beautifully designed, calm, and orderly, foster independence and decision-making, and provide varied opportunities for peer interactions in our mixed-age classrooms. The result is that children can develop their emotional regulation skills in child-centered spaces. 


Opportunities for Conflict Resolution


In addition, we weave in opportunities for conflict resolution. This means we actively model and support children as they learn to communicate their feelings through words. In addition to promoting self-awareness through identifying and naming emotions, we also teach active listening, problem-solving, and techniques for self-regulation (from deep breathing to using calm-down spaces).


Adults serve as mediators and guides rather than arbitrators and judges. Through guided discussions, we help children think reflectively about social interactions, practice respectful communication, facilitate peaceful solutions, and model how to handle conflict. Ultimately, we want to empower children with tools they can use even if an adult isn’t present! 


Respect for Others


One key to this is cultivating respect for others’ perspectives and patience for alternative approaches. Because children work together in a variety of ways through their care of the classroom environment and small group projects or lessons, they develop a deep sense of compassion and empathy. Our mixed-age groupings and peer-to-peer learning activities promote collaboration and mentorship. So, in addition to the adults, older children also serve as models of emotional regulation and conflict resolution for younger peers. The result is that Montessori children develop a deep tolerance for and appreciation of difference. 


Deep Appreciation for Community


Children thrive when they have a sense of community and belonging. So, we promote inclusivity and respect for diversity within the classroom. Wheaton Montessori School curriculum includes a range of activities that encourage group cohesion and empathy-building, which leads to trust and respect among our students. 


The long-term benefits of Montessori’s focus on social-emotional learning and conflict resolution are that children develop lifelong social skills such as a deep sense of empathy, effective communication with various people, and the ability to cooperate with grace and goodwill.


The Montessori method nurtures social-emotional learning and equips children with essential conflict-resolution skills they can use in their classroom communities and social interactions outside of school.


Do you want to learn more and perhaps even support these practices at home? Our current families are invited to visit their classrooms for observation. Click on the below links to schedule your classroom observation. 


Adolescent Community Classroom Observation

Ms. Searcy’s Upper Elementary Classroom Observation

Mrs. Fortun’s Lower Elementary Classroom Observation

Mrs. Mayhugh’s Lower Elementary Classroom Observation

Mrs. Berdick’s Primary Classroom Observation

Ms. Carr’s Primary Classroom Observation

Ms. Chiste’s Primary Classroom Observation

Mrs. Rogers’s Primary Classroom Observation

 

Prospective families are invited to schedule a tour and discover how Wheaton Montessori School nurtures your child's growth from the age of 2.5 through to 9th grade.




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